The Overseas Aisle

Guides for couples planning a US wedding from abroad

Practical, sourced answers to the questions that come up when you live overseas and your venue, vendors and paperwork don't.

Legal

Who Can Officiate a Wedding in the US? Officiant & Witness Rules

Who can legally officiate a US wedding, whether a friend can do it, how online ordination is treated, and the witness and license-return rules in eight states.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 8 min read
Logistics

Shipping a Wedding Dress to the US: Customs and Duties

Buying a dress, rings or decor overseas for a US wedding? What CBP says about the traveler exemption, the suspended $800 rule and what to ask before you ship.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 7 min read
Logistics

Day-of Coordinator vs Wedding Proxy: What Each Does

What a day-of coordinator does, what a wedding proxy does, and who owns each task when you plan a US wedding from abroad, plus questions to ask before hiring.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 8 min read
Planning

How to Plan a US Wedding from Overseas: Complete Guide

A step-by-step guide to planning a US wedding from abroad: the order to decide things, remote-friendly vendors, on-the-ground help, guest travel and paperwork.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 8 min read
Budget

How Much Does a Wedding Cost in 2026? What the Data Says

The Knot puts the average US wedding at $34,200 for 117 guests; Zola says $36,000. See the category breakdown, what moves the total and where the data stops.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 8 min read
Legal

How to Get Married in the US as a Foreigner

Yes, non-citizens can marry in the US. What clerks say about residency, foreign passports, SSNs, translations, and where immigration begins.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 7 min read
Logistics

How to Manage a US Wedding Proxy from Overseas

How to choose, brief and manage a US wedding proxy from abroad: what to delegate, what to keep, a briefing template, and when to hire a coordinator.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 8 min read
Planning

When to Book Wedding Vendors: A Month-by-Month Timeline

Lead times for a venue, photographer, caterer and more from The Knot, Zola and WeddingWire, plus extra steps for couples planning a US wedding from overseas.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 7 min read
Budget

Destination Wedding vs. Wedding at Home: Which Costs Less?

The Knot's data shows destination weddings averaging $41,700 to $43,700 versus $32,600 at home, with fewer guests. What that means if you live overseas.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 6 min read
Venue

How to Choose a Wedding Venue Without Visiting in Person

How to vet a US wedding venue remotely: what to request first, a live video tour route, questions photos can't answer, contract points and red flags.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 8 min read
Budget

Hidden Costs of Planning a US Wedding from Abroad

Transfer fees, exchange-rate swings, extra flights, customs and costs missing from vendor quotes, with sourced ranges and a worksheet for couples abroad.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 6 min read
Vendors

US Wedding Vendor Calls Across Time Zones: A Playbook

Schedule calls with US wedding vendors from abroad: a time-difference table, the weeks daylight saving breaks your math, and scheduling email templates.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 8 min read
Legal

Marriage License Requirements When You Live Overseas

How a US marriage license works when you live abroad: who must appear, waiting periods, expiry windows, ID, and a verified sample of eight states.

Updated October 28, 2026 · 9 min read